Hi everyone, I had my first baby at 29, but now we're planning to have another at 35 (it's complicated). I'm a bit worried because I heard it takes longer 35 onwards. If any of you had a kid after 35, how long did it take?
Oops I realized I should reply straight to the thread. I wanted to say that I think it depends on the individual and their health. I had another friend who had her first baby at 40 and she struggled a lot, and when they wanted a second at like 41, it was not possible and there were going to be many complications.I had another friend who just had her fourth baby at 40 and she had a regular pregnancy and carried to term... but she's also a veteran mama haha
Welcome to the club! I had my first baby late-ish at 33, another at 35, and another at 39. Funnily enough, the second one took the longest and the last one took no time at all! Don't be too worried :) Just keep trying and don't stress too much. I think I was too stressed trying for the second and it backfired. The last one was just like "try for fun" and bam! haha
I think at 35 you should be ok... :)
Oops I realized I should reply straight to the thread. I wanted to say that I think it depends on the individual and their health. I had another friend who had her first baby at 40 and she struggled a lot, and when they wanted a second at like 41, it was not possible and there were going to be many complications. I had another friend who just had her fourth baby at 40 and she had a regular pregnancy and carried to term... but she's also a veteran mama haha
Welcome to the club! I had my first baby late-ish at 33, another at 35, and another at 39. Funnily enough, the second one took the longest and the last one took no time at all! Don't be too worried :) Just keep trying and don't stress too much. I think I was too stressed trying for the second and it backfired. The last one was just like "try for fun" and bam! haha